Do these pants look familiar? They are the Feathers Pajeema Pants I debuted [HERE]. Although these gold platform sandals are not the sturdiest shoes on the planet, I don’t usually have problem walking in them. On this occasion, however, the ground was quite squishy so I had to concentrate on balancing.

The only way to stand firm in these stilt-like heels was to have both feet planted square on the ground. Walking on this uneven ground, each otherwise automated step required more thought and consideration. That got me thinking about life.

Alexander Wang Jacket // Feathers Pajeema Pants // Sonia Rykiel Sandals // Vintage Shirt & Accessories

The world is full of changing ideas and ideals, from fashion trends to moral standards. How can we stand firm in times of constant change? How do we withstand peer pressure? How can we stand firm in our beliefs?

To be unswayed by the currents of life, we need solid footing. We need balance and stability. I’ve been trying to maintain a healthy diet, get adequate sleep and strive for work-life balance for a while now. Thank God, I’m finally making progress. I found that a lot of the changes I had to make in my life were all in my head. Instead of thinking “It’s too hard… I can’t do this… I can’t do that… I’m not good enough…” I realised that “I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

Often it’s our thoughts that dictates our choices, our choices that build our habits, and our habits that shape our lives. That’s why aside from getting our physical wellbeing in check, we need to also find balance and stability in our thoughts. There you go! Wearing vertiginous heels gets you thinking from head to toe!

Wishing you an awesome weekend lovelies. I have an exciting giveaway for you next week that just may help you get balance and stability in many areas of your life! Stay tuned!